Mistakes that kill

The childhood, the first marriage, the divorce, the domestic violence...

I had gotten through it all,

Until they 

{MY STATE'S Social Services} 

started making mistakes, that affected my 

LIFE.

1. 2006 ~
My protection order was violated when they issued the respondent a concealed weapons permit. He was also given the necessary information to petition to have my order dropped.

I collapsed  ending up in a hospital for 5 days, sent home with oxygen tanks and Doctors with lots of ???????? They couldn't understand why my left lung was acting as it was. My heart was out of control, hypertension and high blood pressure...
I was sent home with oxygen tanks and told I had COPD, and
The conclusion was a mild stroke? set off by a panic attack.

3. 2008 ~
Social Security Judge denied my disability because of a letter written by a psychiatrist {Not my doctor} that stated in the letter that
Melinda is doing quite well on her new medications.

I went to my doctor asking what new medications. I was told
Sorry wrong doctor wrong case. Our mistake.

4. 2008
DSHS cut me off, discontinued all benefits and medical. Leaving me addicted to 3 medications and cutting off the prescriptions.
Therapy was ended. {A mistake that wouldn't be discovered for 10 years}

2008 ~ 2018
A whole nother story.
A new doctor in 2014
a new path in life in 2018.

5. 2018 ~
I reapplied for DSHS and was required to reapply for Social Security.
DSHS admitted it was their mistake in 2008 to cut me off, they were supposed to do something different.

6. 2018
Social Security listed my address to one I had in 2008... not the CURRENT ADDRESS LISTED ON THE APPLICATION.
None of my paperwork was received or returned in a timely fashion.

7. There was supposed to be someone from DSHS helping with the paperwork for Social Security..... They didn't contact me either time, until 5 days after it was too late.

8. 2019 ~
I finally got the corrected address with Social Security just in time for them to send me a denial letter.

My therapist quit her job and did not forward my case, leaving me to START OVER AGAIN.

9. 2019 ~
I had to file an appeal and so far Social Security has my address correct.
Let's just leave this box open to a WILL SEE
Issues with my DSHS claim, led me to a call in to find out ......

are you ready for this

DSHS NOW HAS MY ADDRESS CHANGED TO THE ADDRESS I HAD IN 2008 !!
10. After a year of having my address CORRECT, someone decided to change it without my consent or knowledge to an INCORRECT ADDRESS.

11. 2019 ~
My new therapy intake worker, after explaining to him that the States mistakes are my PTSD and ANXIETY right now, having to start OVER AGAIN AND AGAIN, I'm never going to get to MOVE PAST THE PAST.

ARE YOU READY,

THE THERAPIST, MAKES A MISTAKE AND GIVES ME SOMEONE ELSE'S SAFETY PLAN!!


IF PEOPLE COULD JUST GET THINGS RIGHT, ....

In conclusion.......

Here is the {according to a friends hypothisys} 

WHY THIS HAPPENS ~ 

People that get good grades in school and go on to college, get jobs with large corporations or important organizations like hospitals and lawyers....

People that barely get their high school diploma, or GED and little to no college 

Work for your government

Minimum job requirements and 
The lowest paying jobs in our country.

What do you think?

Love to hear from you

Blessed by God,

Life's good @ the Bright side of the Barn.

Thanks for stopping by, 

Until next time, Stay safe and Happy Trails.

Trolls

People never cease to amaze me.

I was recently informed by a family member that I have trolls here @ the bright side of the barn.

All I have to say is,

Welcome.


You have to love it when people hate you and they don't even know you. They only know the things they have heard from someone, that
A either doesn't know you at all, or
B  they themselves call that person a 'liar'.

Like everything they say about you is a lie, but what they say about me is the God's honest truth. LOL.

Bible warns us about gossip and backbiting. The one thing too many people are very good at. Being two faced, a regular thing now rather than a rare trait. Sadly, People spend so much time in other peoples business, they don't see the mess in their own.

Young people are getting over traumatized about it, now with social media's and the instant exposure.

I was advanced in school, considered 'smart' and the youngest person in high school ..... Believe me, I know what it's like...when people are jealous and try to drag your character down to their level.

I have spent my life being lied about and accused of things not becoming of my character. I find it humorous some of the things I'm said to be capable of. Especially the things completely impossible, but hey, who am I to condemn the fool that believes it.

A friend and I were talking about this very thing once, a while back. We came to the conclusion that we would have to be 3 people, one clone, capable of becoming invisible, and have super powers equal to at least two super heros to do all the things we've been accused of in our lifetimes .


You can't waste your time and spend your life running around trying to keep up with what people say about you. You will never catch up.

You have to spend your time, enjoying your life and being you.

Make sure your not making the same mistake about other people.

Check your facts, 

someone that wasn't actually there to see it for themselves, probably isn't telling you 'how it really went down'.

When a person doesn't actually know the person they are talking about, chances are they don't know what they are talking about.

People that are insecure about themselves will constantly talk bad about other people that they see as better than themselves.

When one person doesn't like someone, they tend to persuade their friends into not liking something about that person as well.

If you tell yourself a lie enough times, you will start to believe it's true.

God knows the truth, Live a life that will get you welcomed into heaven and you can't go wrong. Let the fools drown in their own lies.

We all have trolls in our lives.
Don't let them stop you from crossing the bridges to your dreams.

Blessed by God,

Life's good @ the Bright side of the Barn.

Thanks for stopping by,

Until next time, Stay safe and Happy Trails.