What's your Bitch?

Have you ever been called a Bitch?

  Mind you there is only 1 kind of bitch. Too often 'witches' 'scanks' and 'cu..s' get called a bitch by mistake.

Considering a bitch is the defined original  reference to a pedigree female dog, think about that next time your throwing words out there.

 I was going to go with the heading 'So Misunderstood'. As I went looking for today's image for the post, the Bright side image and our Today's Quote ~ I found the one featured here. Click the image to the link and read the article. There is an argument in the comments as to the origination of the article. Please don't mind that. It is the article itself worth reading.

 - if you have ever been called a bitch!!

 So today's title changed a bit. I personally could strongly relate to the article as I am that kind of Bitch and proud of it. 

When you have self standards people will call you 'stuck up'.

When you bust your ass because you like nice things and when you take care of your things. 'you think your better than everyone else'.

Too often one is called spoiled, when in fact they worked their ass off to have what they have. Picky about who sits on it? Probably, they paid good money for it and it might have taken a while to achieve so they want to enjoy it for a while too. 

 Sometimes, I will write a blog or make a post on social media and someone takes it personal or gets offended. I get accused of 'talking about them' - Frustrating for me, because it's usually just a random thought that popped into my head that morning. Some smell, sight, sound or memory triggered a past experience - and there it is, my next post!

It's not always about YOU ~ as my children learned growing up. ...

 If I got something to say to you - Your going to hear it from me. If you didn't hear it from me, I probably didn't say it and don't know a damn thing about it. 

So your feelings are based on fabrication, now don't you look silly?

 Think about that one next time your wasting your time listening to gossip. Don't hate someone because you were told too, your probably friends and listening to the wrong person, missing out on the REAL ONE. 

 Hmmmm, LOL,  That's probably why I'm Hated by so many and most of the ex's families. I didn't walk on egg shells around them, I said it how it is. {You think I'm a bitch, meet my daughters.} I was more willing to walk away or shut the door than to play their childish games and live in their drama. 

 Keep it real and drama free. Life is an adventure, move forward don't get trapped in the past. 

Be you!

Blessed by God

Life's good @ the Bright side of the Barn

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Until next time, Stay safe and Happy Trails.

Quenching the Thirst

 I have seriously had a craving for kittens lately. 

Weird I know. 

There is just something about them. So, to quench my thirst and not increase my herd of cats - I contacted the local Humane Society and signed up to be a 'Kitty Foster Mum'. I got the email yesterday that I'm approved!!

 So cool, I get to help baby kitties until they find their hopefully FOREVER homes and not have an over population of CATS at my house.  

It's the purrfect solution!

And it HELPS the Humane Society.

Not to be distracted by life.... 

If you or your 'significant other' have any kind of Union job. Before you retire - check with your rep! Papa and I have been trying to figure out what to do. As he is of age to retire. His health is preventing him from working a full 40 hour week; and because of his health - the medical coverage is critical. His rep has been so helpful not just in information, advice and direction.... but reassurance for Papa. 

We have 5 Doctor appointments coming up in the next few weeks for him. {The roller coaster has left the station and the ride has begun.} We will hopefully learn a lot about what is wrong, how to fix it and what is to come. He missed work again yesterday. The bleeding has gotten much worse. He really shouldn't be working. SO hoping one of these doctors can help.

Our local events are starting up for the summer. I had to back out on the larger 2 day events and reschedule so that we weren't doing them every weekend. {The business will have to grow a little slower, but steady } I think the shorter timed one day events will be enough for him.  He gets fatigued really easily, I don't say anything when so much doesn't get done. 

The shopping links to my favorite companies have helped the paypal account grow a bit. Thank you to all who have went shopping. I'm sure your going to love what you ordered, I only have links to my favorite places - and Amazon of course. Remember sometimes when you go through the affiliate links {like mine} there are special buys and discounts that you only get in the affiliate links. 

If there is an opportunity to host a party or gathering, that means there is an opportunity to get more for less and something for free. Now days, most people option the catalog/online party feature. That way they don't have to do much except share a catalog and link for friends to shop, so  they can earn the freebies. 

My horse is doing well, I wanted to get her a partner this spring, but those plans got put off due to the situations going on. I let her know it would be a while with just her. She's getting more attention and the grandkids have been riding more so that helps. 

No cigarette for about 36 hours now...this is the longest stretch I've done this time around. Yep, I've quit a few times and went back a few more. . . Determined this time. Doctor told me it usually takes a person about 8 trys to finally quit for good. Don't know what number this is for me, I just hope it's the last number......

Until next time ~ 

Blessed by God

Life's good @ the Bright side of the Barn

Thanks for stopping by

Until next time, Stay Safe and Happy Trails.