Always HOPE

 Always hope for tomorrow. Don't give up. No matter how bad it looks or feels. There is always a chance it will get better. Life can be dark, painful and difficult, leaves you to wonder WHY? Look for the moments of happiness, the good people you have met along the way. Sometimes it's only a fleeting moment, but it's a good moment. Live to the best of your ability and do the right thing whenever you can. We can regret our mistakes, but don't let them take you down. Nobody is perfect, we have all made bad choices along the way. Look for ways out of the darkness, look beyond the pain. The situation may feel like it's never going to end. Don't get stuck there. Look for openings, ways to get out, to get away. 

Change is always scary at first. Stepping into the unknown. It's better to walk away from a bad situation than to drown in it. You lose who you are when you allow others to bring you down. Don't stoop to their level. No matter how much it hurts, It heals when you walk away. Sometimes you have to let go of all you care about. Sometimes you think you are alone. Look up, you will see others suffering in their own darkness as well. Nobody lives in sunshine all the time. Sometimes folks fake happiness as a way to cover up their pain. Depression isn't a choice, it's not something you get over and it can't be cured with a pill. Even though the doctors like to make you think it can. 

Hope is the power of change..... 

Hope is not just a feeling of optimism but a dynamic process that involves agency and pathways to achieve goals. It is a belief in one's capability to act and the identification of routes to achieve those goals. Hope engages brain regions associated with goal-directed behavior, including the prefrontal cortex and dopamine pathways, releasing dopamine that is linked to motivation and reward. This neurological wiring makes hope a fundamental aspect of human biology, driving us to seek resources, build communities, and innovate. Hope creates a proactive mindset, turning current challenges into stepping stones for progress, and is essential for personal development, scientific progress, and societal change. 

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Little things can make a big difference. Reach for things you know you can accomplish and feel good when you have succeeded. If it feels too big, break it down into smaller parts. Don't worry about cleaning the whole house. Look at one room or one task. Take it one step at a time. Don't stress the car being broken down. Look at getting the parts, then getting help to put them on. If it still isn't fixed, look at what else might be wrong. Don't worry about the things you can't get done being stranded. Look around for the things you can do while being stranded. You might not be accomplishing what you think needs to be done. You will be accomplishing things that can be done. 

Nobody is certain tomorrow will come, no one has a signed agreement to how long life will last. We have now, we have today. Don't waste it. Use it to the fullest possible. God's word tells us to worry about today and let the tomorrow take care of itself. God knows the needs. God will provide what is needed in this day. Not what is wanted, wished for or dreamed of, but what is needed. No matter how bad it looks or feels you can get through it. You just have to have hope, faith and a belief that you are in God's hands. He will see you through. 

It's felt like the end of the road so many times in life. It's felt like 'ending it' would be the best for all. There has always been this one little voice saying 'hang on - it's going to get better,' There is a reason for everything even though we may not see the cause. Sometimes we are blessed to see the outcome and have understanding later on, sometimes - we never get to know the WHY.  You just have to keep breathing and HOPE with FAITH believing that things will change and the sun will shine again. 

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October Chill

 Just looked out the window and realized it's quietly raining. I hope we get to go back to normal Washington weather. Fall and Winters full of rainy days, with little to no snow here on the west side. Moderate temperatures, not too cold. Summer was a bit more like the good old days, hoping we get lucky. I really don't like the super cold and a lot of snow. I liked it better when we had to take the kids to the mountains to find snow to play it. It would be a great snow day then back home to the warmer rainy weather. 

So grateful to be where I am this year. Been working hard to keep it and get ahead. PTSD and overwhelming Anxiety issues have presented a few challenges along the way. My ability to work a normal 9-5 job went out the window years ago. I've finally found a way to work around my limitations, and still work. Sadly, now the physical body is starting to wear out. Makes it a bit more difficult on a daily basis. But we are still getting it done. Last night was another painful episode with my stomach. Very tired today. I think I kept Chanelle and Sylvester awake too. 

I love doing the inspections and merchandising for companies. I get to go places I wouldn't normally travel. Now living up north, I'm actually closer to most of my assignments, making it more profitable by using less gas to get around. Forever grateful to my BFF Debbie and the car. I absolutely love the car. I'm hoping to get a few repairs done and new parts put on in the next couple of months. She'll look good as new when we are done.

I miss the kids, and don't hardly get to see anyone anymore. I have 2 that keep in touch and 2 that I will never understand. I pray for them daily. My grandkids are all growing up so fast and getting so big. Even the great grandkids are starting to be in school all day. Life happens pretty fast when you're not looking. 

One more job then I'm done for today. Homemade chicken soup and dumplings for dinner. I finally got a couple cookie sheets so I can bake again. I miss my homemade cookies and snacks. Still looking for that houseplant Tradescantia Spathacea. Found it on Amazon, but I'm not too sure about plants in the mail? I will let you know if I decide to order it how well it arrives. {alive or dead}. 

Hope everyone has an amazing weekend! 

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Tinnitus

There is actually a word for it. Have you ever heard of it before now? 

It's only been in the last few months that I hear it constantly; it's one of the reasons I need some kind of noise like a movie going on to go to sleep. If it's quiet, the buzzing is louder. I don't like loud noises, because it hurts my ears. Considering I have this constant sound going on, it's hard to find peace and a happy medium. I know I'm not the only one with this condition, according to articles I've researched, there are millions that suffer from it. It does make it hard to rest. Hard to hear things, especially voices.  

Is this something you suffer from as well? What do you do for peace? 

Tinnitus is a condition characterized by the perception of noise, such as ringing or buzzing, in one or both ears without an external sound source. It can be a symptom of various underlying conditions, and while there is currently no cure, there are management strategies available to help cope with its effects. Common causes include exposure to loud noises, ear infections, and age-related hearing loss. If you experience persistent tinnitus, it is advisable to consult a healthcare professional for further evaluation and management options.

Tinnitus: What Causes Ear Ringing and How to Treat it

Tinnitus is when you have noise present in your ears that others don’t hear. About 26 million adults in the United States have tinnitus, says Joy Onozuka, director of community engagement and communications at the American Tinnitus Association. For some, the effects of tinnitus are minor but for about 20 percent of those who have tinnitus, constant ringing in the ears can distract their sleep and concentration, and cause anxiety and depression.

It's enough to drive you crazy! 

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House Plants

I went over a year without a plant in my life. I had sold off all my indoor and outdoor potted plants when the house sold. There is just something about plants that make a house a home, fresh and appealing. I've missed my babies. Recently a friend moved from Washington to California and before she left, she made babies of some of the plants I had given her. In addition, she loaded me up with several plants she wasn't able to take with her. It took a couple truck loads just to move the plants she did take. It took me a couple carloads to bring the ones for me that she gave me. All of which are now growing happily in the house where I am at. A couple are in despair thanks to Sylvester who happens to love chewing on them. There are not enough high windows to protect all of them, so it's a bit of a battle between him and I to keep him out of them. He's getting better, learning takes time. I'm still on the hunt to replace a few that I had and enjoyed growing. During my hunt I've come across a few good links to share for those interested in house plants. Whether a seasoned grower or brand new to growing these are some great links. 

A few great links to find the perfect House Plants.

The Grow

Garden Design

House of KoJo

The Spruce

The best plant care links

The Gardeners Path

The Pottery Barn

My personal favorite is

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Get it Notarized!

Why get it Notarized  ? 

Here's a great article to help understand the WHY ~ 

https://legalknowledgebase.com/why-do-documents-need-to-be-notarized

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Notarizing a document is essential for preventing fraud, ensuring authenticity, and 

facilitating legal transactions, making it a crucial step in many important agreements.

1. Fraud Prevention: One of the primary reasons to notarize a document is to deter  fraud. A notary public verifies the identity of the signers, ensuring that they are  who they claim to be and that they are signing willingly. This process significantly reduces the risk of forgery or misrepresentation. 

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2. Document Authenticity: Notarization provides an official endorsement of a  document's validity. When a notary public stamps and signs a document, it  confirms that the document has been executed properly and can be trusted by   authorities and institutions. 

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3. Legal Compliance: Many legal documents, such as real estate transactions, wills, powers of attorney, and contracts, require notarization to be considered valid and enforceable. Without notarization, these documents may not hold up in court or may not be accepted by financial institutions. 

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4. Official Record: Notarization creates an official record of the signing process,  which can be useful in case of future disputes regarding the document. The  notary public keeps a log of all notarized documents, which can serve as  evidence in legal proceedings. 

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5. Increased Trustworthiness: Having a document notarized often enhances its  perceived legitimacy. Financial institutions and government agencies are more  likely to accept notarized documents, knowing they have undergone a verification process. 

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Conclusion

In summary, notarizing a document is a vital step in many legal and financial  transactions. It not only helps prevent fraud and ensures authenticity but also  provides legal protection and increases the trustworthiness of the document.  Whether you are finalizing a real estate deal, executing a will, or entering into a  business agreement, notarization is an important safeguard for all parties  involved.

 Commonly Notarized Documents

1. Affidavits: These are sworn statements of fact that are often used as  evidence in court. Notarization is essential for their validity. 

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2. Powers of Attorney: This document allows one person to act on behalf of another in legal or financial matters. While not always required, notarization is highly recommended. 

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3. Real Estate Documents: This includes deeds, mortgages, and lease  agreements. Notarization is typically required to ensure the legality of  property transactions. 

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4. Wills and Trusts: While not all states require notarization for wills, it is  advisable to have them notarized to prevent disputes. 

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5. Parental Consent for Travel: This document is often required when a child is traveling without both parents and needs notarization to verify consent. 

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6. Contracts and Agreements: Various contracts, including business  agreements and loan documents, may require notarization to ensure all  parties are legally bound. 

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7. Healthcare Documents: This includes living wills and advance healthcare  directives, which outline a person's wishes regarding medical treatment. 

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Importance of Notarization

Notarization serves to verify the identity of the signers, ensure that they  understand the document's contents, and confirm that they are signing  willingly. This process helps prevent fraud and ensures that the documents are legally binding. 

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Exceptions

While many documents can be notarized, some cannot, such as birth and  death certificates, which must be obtained from the issuing authority.  Additionally, if a document is incomplete or if the signer cannot provide  proper identification, notarization may be refused. 

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In summary, notarization is a crucial step for many important documents,  providing legal assurance and preventing potential disputes. Always check  local laws and regulations regarding notarization requirements for specific  documents

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