It Takes TWO

 It's really hard to talk to someone, that shuts down, changes the subject, goes and takes a nap or straight up ignores the subject.

"She yells at me" - Take responsibility for your actions

and stop ignoring her and blaming her for them ~

Then maybe she wouldn't yell at you.

Stop procrastinating and do the right thing before it's too late!

Maybe then she wouldn't be pushing you before you lose everything.

"I don't want to talk about that" - "Why you always bringing that up?"

Um.. because it's unresolved and needs dealt with?

And they all wonder why you are the way you are.?
I personally feel sorry for you, not them.
It's mental abuse what they are doing to you.
Pack your bags and walk away!
Let everyone think they are the victim; we know the truth.

This explains it better than I ever could. I was told someone sounded like a narcissist. I didn't know what that meant exactly. So, I asked a couple folks. They gave me this

All I could say was WOW! That explains a lot in my world.

I once told a therapist that I feel like I'm the monster, everyone thinks I'm the bad guy.

Therapist told me, I'm in a reactive state to what has happened to me. I didn't make myself that way, I was forced into it to survive.

Survive

That's what my life boils down to....

I've had to survive, not thrive.

It's pathetic when you think about it. Years of 'I forgot' when it comes to your birthday or an anniversary. Not giving a damn about how YOU feel about something, just doing things their own way no matter who it hurts.

Always being put down and pushed back.

No respect.

Taking credit for your good deeds and blaming you for their mistakes.

"I should just kill myself" when they don't get their way or things are not going the way they want them to. They make you want to kill yourself just to get away from it, because you don't see any way out! {Sadly, I had a friend that did just that to get away from someone} I've felt the same way many times. Like death is the only way to get away from the situation.

Especially when people feel sorry for them and not you. You wish just once someone would see your pain. "Why is she such a bitch". {I've heard that said about so many woman friends.} Well, if you knew the truth about how the asshole treats her, when nobody is around, you might understand why after all these years she's a bitch.

You just have to break down and be the bad guy

- WALK AWAY - SAVE YOURSELF -

because they are never going to change, and they are never going to do right by you. They only think about themselves, and they don't care who it hurts.

They turn everyone against you - so really - you have nothing left to lose -

It's time for you to think about YOURSELF - WALK AWAY -

Blessed by God

Life's going to be better after the resurrection!

Thanks for stopping by @ The Bright Side of the Barn.

Until next time, Stay Safe and Happy Trails.

Mystery Shoppers Needed!

 Mystery shoppers are needed around our area for a variety of shops! Such as - Bank shops, Hotel shops, Event shops, Restaurant shops, Inventory and Pricing Audits, and of course my favorite - On site Inspections! Many pay a small compensation as well as reimbursement, additionally some pay for your 'gas' to get there. I'm currently being offered $50 for a shop and $50 for the gas - to go to Yakima for an inspection. {Unfortunately, my vehicle isn't up for the trip} Do you like Applebees? A free Brown Bear car wash? Apply for a credit card and earn $160! So many different opportunities to get paid for things you already do! Bar shops and Live entertainment shops if you like going to the movies or concerts. Oil changes up to $140! Yep, a free oil change for your car. Do you like to 'test drive' new cars? Those are always fun! grocery stores, get a partial discount on your shopping. The opportunities are endless!

I currently work with over 40 companies.

You pick the assignments you want from a job board.

If your selected, you will receive complete instructions

to perform the 'shop'. 

When you get done, go home,

     get on the computer and input your answers.

Most questionnaires are short and simple,

     some require a narrative.

Most shops pay the month following the shops. 

As the companies need to get paid by the clients

     before they can pay you.

PayPal is the most common payment method,

It's good to use your PayPal card to make the purchases,

     helps you keep track of your expenses and earnings.

Blessed by God

Life's good @ the Bright side of the Barn

Thanks for stopping by

Until next time, Stay Safe and Happy Trails